Intro..

Obviously, I'm Amber Nicole.. :) I'm 21 years old, and I live in Kentucky. I've lived here my whole life, and I like it. It's a small town, with nothing to do, but it's a quiet town, and you hafta love that :) I have a daughter named Lorelai, who will be turning 2 this month. Her father and I are divorced, and we've pretty much been separated since she was a newborn.. I'm currently pregnant, with a baby boy, who we're naming Embrii Khaide. He should be arriving around December of this year, and my boyfriend and I couldn't be more excited.

Some random info about myself:
1. I'm a mom. The person that I was ceased to be, when I gave birth to my daughter. I don't go places without her, and I also don't take her to places where there are indoor pets. Mainly because I hate animals, and don't trust them. If an animal hurts my child, I don't believe in the bullshit excuse that the child shouldn't have provoked the dog. The child, is just that.. A CHILD. If an animal attacks my kid, that animal is going straight to meet his/her maker. I also wont take my kid somewhere that is nasty, somewhere that people smoke indoors, or somewhere where there are a lot of breakable things. If you fit into any of these categories, and I don't hang out with you often, stop bitching, because now you know why..
2. I hate, absolutely HATE discussing religion or politics. Apparently everyone is determined to believe how they want to believe, and that's fine by me. But I don't want to hear about it. Arguments or agreements about politics or religion should just be kept to oneself. I believe in God, and I don't know enough about politics, nor do I care to know, to have a "political party".
3. I'm the worst person in the world, when it comes to biting my tongue. Like, seriously, people tell me all the time to "be nice to someone to limit drama" There's no drama. There's me, speaking my mind, and them speaking theirs back. I don't post crap on Facebook, and I know how to keep things to myself. I don't deal with drama, but I don't deal with bullsh*t either..
4. I'm a natural type of parent. I regret decisions that I made with Lorelai, like not researching vaccinations, etc. But, as Maya Angelou said "I did then, what I knew how to do. And when I knew better, I did better..." I pick and choose which vaccines I want my children to have. I don't let them have artificial sugars. They only get whole milk, I plan to cloth diaper Embrii when he gets here, and I wish I'd done so with Lorelai. I'm going to make my own babyfood with Embrii, and again, wish I'd done it with Lorelai. I breast feed, co sleep, I don't want my son(s) circumcised, I like to wear my babies. (Sasha Wrap is definitely on my wish list!! Lol) I do not spank my child, I use Time out as an effective form of punishment. I don't like for her to have a lot of junk food, and if I can help it, I don't feed her processed/frozen foods. I prefer to cook every meal, home cooked, and I do that as much as possible :))

I suppose that's enough of an intro, and if at least one thing on this list of stuff, didn't make you think "good lord, she's crazy" Then we could be friends :))

Amber Nicole

My reason for not giving my children regular cows milk:
http://www.naturalchild.org/guest/linda_folden_palmer.html

My reason for choosing to not circumcise my son(s):
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/
http://www.thewholenetwork.org/14/post/2011/08/50-reasons-to-leave-it-alone.html